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How can I pay more discreetly?

We are not 100% certain what will show on your credit card statement as each bank is different. If you are concerned about what will show on your statement, we can also accept a money order. Please use the contact form to request more information about sending a money order.

Will I be charged every month?

No, we do not have recurring billing at Discreet Adventures. You will never be charged more than once. If you pay for a month, you will go back to being a free member once that month is over. If you wish to extend your VIP membership, you will have to go through the checkout process again.


What is a Wink?

Sending a wink to another member is a simple friendly way to let another member know you are interested in them.

What is instant messaging?

Instant Messaging allows you to immediately contact and chat with another member, similar to MSN Messenger. Both members must of course be online at the same time.

What is send a message?

Send A Message is our version of an internal email system. The other member will receive an email notification that you have sent them a message. They can then go and log into their account to read that email. Your email address will never be disclosed.


Are there any singles using DiscreetAdventures.com?

Anyone may use our service if they are interested in meeting attached women and men. However, single people may find it a little more difficult to connect with someone who is attached.


Will you give out my private details to other marketing companies?

We do NOT sell, rent or give away our member's personal email addresses or other personal information to any third party company under any circumstance.

Will you send any information to my home or office?

We will NEVER send you any mail or call you....period. We will send you system notices to the email address you signed up with only. We will always reply to you via email unless you request otherwise. (be sure to email us from a discreet email address such as gmail.


What are the rules/code of conduct for using this site?

We will not tolerate harassment, racial or ethnic slurs, threats, and insulting messages. Do not solicit any goods or services on our site. No commercial advertisements or spamming. You must be a minimum of 18 years of age.

What are the rules/guidelines for posting an ad?

No personal contact information in your profile. No foul language. No Solicitation of any goods or services. No illegal activities / Promoting anything illegal. Nudity is not allowed in your profile pictures.

Your Account

Can I get a refund if I change my mind?

We will issue a refund, no questions asked, within 24hrs of upgrading your account provided you have not made any contact with any members.

How do I change my email address?

Login to our site using your handle and password. Click on the "Account Info" link. Enter your new email address. Click on the "Update Info" button & you're done!

How do I change my password?

Login to our site using your handle and password. Click on the "Account Info" link. Enter your new password. Click on the "Update Info" button & you're done.

If I Forgot my password, what do I do?

Simply visit the sign-in page and click on the forgot password link.

Why does the site keep taking me to the front page?

If you are viewing our site within frames, for example, in Hotmail or a webmail application, this will happen. To get around this, open another browser window and type in our address into the browser address area. You will be able to sign in now. Also ensure your browser is set to accept cookies.

Your Profile

Are profiles moderated?

Yes. All member profiles, when they are originally created as well as when they are modified, must be reviewed and approved.

How do I update my profile?

To update your profile, log into your account with your handle and password and then: click on "my profile" click on "modify profile"

How long does it take to have my profile reviewed?

It can take up to 24 hours for free profiles to be approved. Approvals are done between the hours of 9:00 AM and 11:00 PM EST. Upgraded members normally have their profiles reviewed in a few hours.

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